Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …
Five Practices To Stay Away From When Dating.
1. Competitive activity. A Date is not the place to judge yourself, your Ex-, your achievements, with your prospect’s.
2. Skill. Wanting to prove your skill at being a good partner is too much work and that will manifest.
3. Chance. Remember you chose to be on this date. Ultimately, chance isn’t a factor.
4. Endurance. A date is not a contest to see who will outlast the other in being entertaining or intelligent.
5. Rules. Stone-set rules are a choking point for new possibilities.
Five Practices to Engage in When Dating.
1. Play. Though these may sound basic, I’ll be willing to wager most of you do not approach dating as a playful exercise. Can you recall a time when you were the innocent child making castles in the sand? How sublime was that? Not a care in the world, no one to prove yourself to. Simply muddy fun! Find ways to approach your date with having fun as a first priority. Find fun even if your date is a serious type. Make the game of the night to find fun. You don’t need to see him or her in the future if they cannot be easy-going and have fun. Using the Law of Attraction is amazingly powerful for Relationships Attraction, and is not difficult to grasp.
2. Laugh. A close relative to Play, laughing is the easiest infectious way to spread joy. Before going on any date, most importantly, a first date, tell yourself that you will consciously search for a reason to feel good and laugh. Smile a lot. At the waitress or waiter, at the host. Or put on a grin for no reason.
3. Listen. This is such an important way to build a relationship with your date. Meaningful listening means when you turn off the monologue in your head and really listen to what the person on the other side of the table is saying. Granted, the critic in your head may be wanting to chime in for many reasons. You don’t like the manner in which he eats his soup. She constantly plays with her hair. Things like that can be distractions. Just notice yourself being distracted and pull yourself back into the present. Again, you don’t have to see them again if you don’t desire to. This is an important practice, however, and it’s a building block for intimacy. You’ll want to adopt this practice in your long-term relationship, so why not get your practice in now. Just so you know, you don’t need to listen just in the dating world. You can attract your own Law of Attraction Relationships right now and increase your level of creative potential!
4. Eye Contact. Do not simply make eye contact and bob your head. Practice deep listening whilst making eye contact. This is a wonderful communication of your own generosity. And I can promise you, that generosity will return to you. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means get support! Having an unbiased listener to check in with will help you move away from outdated patterns much more quickly.
5. Communicate. When it’s your time to speak, be clear and be heard. Since you’ve given your time to your date, desire the same. You have not interrupted him or her while he or she has been talking. If an interruption occurs, request the same manners. You can be polite and nice about this without causing it to be a problem. Simply kindly ask for what you’d like. Feeling confident in this takes a lot of pressure off your date. You leave them firmly knowing what you prefer.
It doesn’t matter if you’re 25 or 75 in the dating scene – just like life – if approached as a fun game, one in which there are no losers, your date will go much more smoothly for everyone.
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