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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Advisor , writes… …
Valentine’s Day brings out the romantic in many of us. At the very least, it is a day that we would LIKE to have the romantic drawn out of its shell. In a relationship or spending this Valentine’s Day alone, when Valentine’s Day comes to mind don’t you remember the absurd little cupid cards we would send around to fellow children in school or the cards we made in class for our Moms?
Other memories and reminders we have concerning Valentine’s Day and what it actually means to be a part of a relationship or not can have us feeling feel good or bad, depending on past relationships. Unfortunately, most of how we feel, regardless of what the status of our relationship is is placed in our minds by the conditioned thinking that is ‘out there’ in the mass consciousness.
Don’t listen to what they are saying. Don’t pay attention if it doesn’t lift your spirits and make you feel better about yourself. You’re perfect exactly the way you are.
If you desire a relationship and do not have one, wonderful! You can get clear on exactly what you want. Now you’re in a perfect place to start to attract a relationship from a renewed starting point.
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Valentine’s Day, whether you are coupled or not, can be a day where you experience the love that’s coming to you! But, you must be proactive about this. You are the one who gets to say and has the creative control of what you want in your relationship. A Relationship Coach can help you get clear on what you want and help you achieve the relationship of a lifetime!
Here’s where many of us sleep on the job. We are sitting on our thumbs while we wait for the circumstances to mold differently for us. We are waiting for him to take charge. We’re hoping that if we give him enough hints, he will take one and swing into action. WRONG. Do not do this. That is letting yourself be at the receiving end, instead of the causal end of your life. You get say. All you have to do is make a gentle request, to your existing beloved or to the Universe. Then, you’ll have to step out of the way. You must forget the how, the what, and the when of what you want. Attaching yourself to the outcome is basically resisting what you want. You cannot say “Come in” with your hand keeping the door shut and expect it to enter. Perhaps that’s easier said than done. But that is why life coaching exists for those of us who need to gain clear on why we’re failing to get what we want and then assist us in aligning with what we do so it may be delivered. If you want to get a head-start on attracting the love of your dreams, you can get great coaching from a Law of Attraction Coach. Get your free consultation today!
It comes down to three steps. Ask, Align, and Allow. Simple, right? Not necessarily easy. Ask yourself “What could be available to me in a loving, aligned, co-creative partnership?” “What could be possible for me in my life if I had a mutual, loving relationship”? Think Big! Now begin to live in the energy of how your life would appear and feel like if you were enjoying that currently. Use your imagination – remember what you did so naturally when you were a child?
I’m always deeply moved when I think of all of the amazing miracles I’ve created by way of creating my amazing husband. A little over 4 years ago, I was one of those people who had more unsettling closings to relationships than I’d want to admit. Then, I really buckled down with Law of Attraction. I did the play/work. I dropped my walls to love, got aligned and rapidly attracted the love of my dreams.
This Valentine’s Day, this year, I hope you are as blessed as I am in your relationship. I know you deserved it. By the way, a relationship is continuous co-creation, as is life. I wish you a happy life, true love and perfect creation.
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